Safety tips for networking meetings.
An important part of career strategy is networking, which is connecting with people to share information relevant to a certain topic, professional industry, or career field. While it’s great to make an effort to connect with others, you must do so in a safe way. Even if you have some familiarity with a new network contact, keep in mind that your experience with that person is limited and you may not be familiar with his/her character. With some planning, you can avoid a situation where you fear for your physical safety or feel uncomfortable given a certain conversation. The following are ways that you can network professionally in a safe and effective way.
Meet in public places like coffee shops or networking events. If you’ve done adequate research and find an office is well populated and reputable, you may meet at a person’s place of business. Don’t put yourself in a position where you are in a confined or lockable space. I strongly recommend not going to someone’s residence, even if it also functions as a professional workspace.
Always maintain your sobriety when networking. Avoid drinking alcohol, as it may impede your judgement. Not only can consuming alcohol compromise your safety, it can also lead to a situation where you act in an unprofessional way or say something inappropriate. A cup of coffee, tea, or other drink like juice or a smoothie is a suitable refreshment for a networking situation.
Tell a friend or family member where you are going, when you will be there, and who you are going to meet. Keep your cell phone charged and on silent during your networking meeting. It is also important to use your own transportation so that if you find yourself in an uncomfortable or unsafe position you will have the ability to leave on your own terms.
Be mindful of the information you are sharing. Unfortunately, select individuals in this world are looking to take advantage of others for some type of gain. Be careful with the information you share with a new contact. Don’t divulge information that is too personal such as your social security number, bank account numbers, your home address, or details about your personal habits.
Trust your gut. If a situation seems dangerous, listen to your instincts and act appropriately. I had a client who was invited by a new contact for an informational interview, which is a great way to network and connect with professionals to learn more about their professional experience and field of interest. When she looked up the address, it was a nondescript warehouse (that supposedly housed a reputable technology company). In arranging the interview, the employer told her to come alone and not to knock when she arrived since someone would be watching for her. All of these clues led to identifying a potentially dangerous situation, and she declined the invitation. If an individual promises you favors that seem insincere or a situation seems too good to be true, it just might be. If you are nervous or suspect of a potential employer or contact’s intentions before meeting, do not put yourself in that situation. If you are already in a situation that turns uncomfortable, politely excuse yourself and leave the location calmly and professionally.
The vast majority of networking situations are safe, but you always be aware of your surroundings and only share information that is appropriate in a professional setting. When done carefully, networking can help you build your career as you gain new contacts and important knowledge.
